THOUGHTS FROM THE SOUL

Memories that are kept forever for all of my friends

Y1S3 here i come

Thank God that my result wasn't bad.

Now,get ready for S3 is going to be tougher!

So, all the best everyone, gambate!

Respect

I post this in my facebook.

" You are not the only one living on this earth so please learn to resepct other people's culture. Don't think your own culture is the best and other's are out-dated. Learn to be humble la. You think you can survive alone in this world meh. "


Why? because there are these people on earth who thinks themselves as the smartest people on earth. When they give you advice or comments or opinion, you must take it, no you must "sallow" it literally. When you speak of your own opinion or disagree on them, they will become very offensive - they will keep on disagree with you by continuing stating their points until you agree with them. ( what a pain..... you must have got a talent for debating )

So please la, learn to be humble and respect other people's opinion. i do not mean that you can not disagree with people is just that we must learn how to disagree with people's opinion without hurting them. (i'm still learning it) or else people will just hate you.

Most of my friends should know that i always ask stupid question which all of you think is amusing. Now, let me tell you, a question is never stupid because is a question. It depends how you look on the subject. Do you know why i always ask the question i asked? it is because i want to get to know how, why , what for, other people do the things they do - to understand their culture.

Do you know what is your best friends' religion, culture , tradition and so on?

For me, to respect others you must know something about their culture. As you guys know, i always ask my friends or newly met friends about your race, state, country, the mother tongue they speak. It seems as if i'm a racist or something but that is not true. What i was trying to do is to understand them.

If i know that you are Hakka for example, i will know probably the things that you will like to eat or maybe the things you like to do. i will keep asking you about your culture just to get to know about you and try not to offend you in the way that you don't like. It is a way for me to understand your culture and respect it. Sometimes you will find it exciting and smart to know what is their tradition about and you shall respect them for who they are.


So, please la learn to respect other people's culture. Do not think that what they do sometimes is funny but try to learn something from other people's culture without forgetting you own(the good ones la). That's why we will never stay harmony if this keeps going on.



(This post is a constant advice for myself to respect other people, do post your opinion after reading as i want to know about it ;p)